The Unexpected Contradictions of Japan

Imagine a row of digital signs on skyscrapers that loom overhead in a vertical city. The six lane boulevard is well-traveled, with cars barely inches apart, and when the light changes a pack of fifty or more people all hurry to cross the street at once. As though the front door was some kind of magical portal, ducking out of traffic and high-rises into the quiet interior of a narrow restaurant leads to a land of bamboo decor and hand-painted signs. People still wear outfits from the 1980s but carry technology more advanced than most of us have ever seen. Riding the well-planned subway system, the occasional full-costumed geisha stands out among the conservative dark suits. There is no place on Earth quite as contradictory and intriguing as Japan.

The strong sense of responsibility and family honor at the core of their culture make the people of Japan truly amazing. Hard work is expected and people in all walks of life strive to do their best at their trade and take pride in their work no matter what they do. Students wear uniforms, attend school six days a week and have few holidays in Japan. Through it all, they usually have a smile to offer and a peace sign in every photo. They are known for their politeness and are usually eager to help, particularly if they can see that you are not from around there. Because the population is 99% Japanese-born, it's easy to spot someone who is just visiting.

The most common forms of entertainment are equally varied. Cartoon characters in bright colors, featured as backpacks with tails or hats that appear to be eating the wearer's head, are always in the trends. On the other side of the coin, a strong sexuality is prevalent in their more adult animation. As hard as they push themselves during their work day, they are free to relax in their personal time, singing karaoke and enjoying games in arcades.   

When visiting, there are many attractions to see in Tokyo or do Inside Japan honeymoons, from the glorious view off the Tokyo Tower to the theme parks and museums. Every park and walkway turns pink during cherry blossom season, when tree-tops turn into fluffy clouds and delicate petals fall like velvet snowflakes. The Great Buddha is a traditional stop outside the city, as is Mastumoto castle. To understand Japan, visitors should see both sides--the cutting-edge urban world and the traditional, ancient ways.

All students in Japan's public schools take 8 years of English before the graduate. Those who do not initiate conversation may be afraid that they will make a mistake but it is safe to assume that most people understand what is being said. Japan is a welcoming place, for family holidays in Japan, honeymoons or custom tailored group trips. The human heart and mind, often at war with each other, beat happily together in Japan.